UNICEF Child Mental Health Specialist Dr. Koen Sevanants has issued a critical warning regarding child abuse, emphasizing that if a person gives gifts or calls children special yet asks for secrets or engages in inappropriate touching, this is not love but rather a severe form of abuse. Dr. Sevanants describes these behaviors as “grooming tactics” employed by predators, who are often individuals that the child knows and trusts, such as family members or close family friends.
Alarmingly, statistics reveal that over 95 percent of global child sexual abuse cases involve someone familiar to the victim. Dr. Sevanants points out that perpetrators of such abuse are strategic; they often utilize methods that are insidiously harmful yet leave no visible evidence. “When this happens during middle childhood, typically between the ages of 5 and 11 or 12, these predators are manipulative and careful not to leave traces that can be detected,” he states.
The implications of this manipulation can be devastating; some children may remain silent due to fear or pressure from their own families when they try to disclose their experiences of abuse. This silence can lead to serious mental health issues, including depression and suicidal thoughts, especially as many victims only come to realize the extent of their abuse during their teenage years.
Recent reports from Fiji highlight the urgent need for vigilance within the community, as there were multiple cases of children being abused by family members in just one month. Dr. Sevanants stresses the importance of community education, awareness, and the establishment of safe reporting channels to disrupt the cycle of abuse.
This call for action aligns with past initiatives aimed at raising awareness about child welfare and safety. The training of community leaders and professionals in responding to child abuse cases, as seen in recent programs facilitated by Dr. Sevanants and supported by the government, showcases a hopeful direction toward improving child protection measures. The ongoing commitment from authorities to build a supportive environment for children reflects a dedication to tackling this critical issue head-on.
Communities are urged to strengthen protective measures and become active participants in ensuring that children feel safe and empowered to speak about any inappropriate behavior they may encounter. Through education and proactive engagement, there is hope that future generations will thrive in a society that prioritizes their well-being and safety.
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