A survivor of domestic violence has urged women experiencing similar struggles to seek help rather than continue living in fear. Cavu Bogidrau shared her personal journey through abuse during a candlelight vigil at the British High Commissioner’s residence, part of the annual 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-based Violence.
As a widow and mother of seven, Ms. Bogidrau emphasized that violence “rarely begins with a punch.” She highlighted that it often starts with more insidious forms of control, manipulation, and silence that families and communities frequently choose to overlook. After enduring years of abuse within her marriage, she realized the dire nature of her situation only after participating in a gender-based violence awareness session.
Feeling trapped by shame, guilt, and hopelessness, Ms. Bogidrau eventually reached out to Empower Pacific for support. “They listened without judgment, and with their help, I rebuilt my self-esteem and started a small business,” she recounted, showcasing the transformative power of support and community engagement.
Empower Pacific’s CEO, Patrick Morgam, noted that obtaining testimonies from survivors is challenging due to the fear, stigma, and trauma that prevent many women from speaking out. He pointed out that civil society organizations continue to provide crucial assistance to victims, responding to emergency calls through their 5626 helpline and offering resources such as transport, food, and temporary accommodation.
With a dedicated team of 47 staff members in Fiji, Empower Pacific focuses on tackling cases of domestic violence and other crises, contributing significantly to the ongoing fight against gender-based violence. The vigil served as a platform for survivors, advocates, and service providers to unite in calling for stronger support systems and increased awareness, as gender-based violence continues to impact families and communities across the nation.
This event reflects a broader movement towards empowerment and recovery, underscoring the importance of community and the resources available for those in need. With continued awareness and support, there is hope for a future where victims of domestic violence can reclaim their lives and thrive.
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