Men facing domestic violence, relationship challenges, and other physical and psychological issues are urged to seek assistance from counselors. Mohenesh Singh, founder and counselor of the Healing Hands Foundation in Fiji, emphasizes that help is available for men who are struggling with suicidal thoughts.
“It is crucial for men to break the silence and report to the police if their rights are being violated,” Mr. Singh stated. He encourages those who feel scared, isolated, confused, ashamed, or afraid to reach out to organizations like his for support.
Mr. Singh takes the initiative to educate young men on effective problem-solving methods. He believes that sharing experiences is essential in preventing men from succumbing to suicidal thoughts. On average, he reports that five to six men reach out to him daily in the Northern Division to discuss their issues.
Through his observations, Mr. Singh identified key factors contributing to male suicide, including domestic violence from partners, relationship problems, and financial troubles. He noted that men involved in alcohol and drug use are also at higher risk for suicide.
Mr. Singh highlighted the societal pressures in Fiji that discourage men from reporting instances of abuse. “In Fiji, there is a common belief that men must appear strong, which complicates their ability to seek counseling or help,” he remarked. He acknowledged the challenge of overcoming these fears but stressed that acknowledging the abuse is the first step towards escaping it.
According to police statistics on national suicide rates from January to October 2023, men reported higher numbers of both suicide and attempted suicide cases, with males accounting for 90 cases compared to 40 females.