Fiji’s vibrant culture often centers around shared moments, and few embody this better than the tradition of yaqona (kava) gatherings. The phrase “Ready for a mix?” serves as more than just an invitation; it symbolizes connection and community among friends and family, where stories are exchanged and relationships deepen.
The significance of these gatherings can be traced back to the early ’70s for many Fijians, including author Colin Deoki, who fondly reminisces about his days with his Brewster Street flatmates. This group of close friends forged lifelong bonds over music, laughter, and, of course, shared bowls of yaqona. They navigated the ups and downs of young adulthood together, creating memories that would become cherished touchstones in their lives.
Among these memories, Deoki recalls the challenges of financial hardship, such as when his friend Kenny would scrounge for seafood to share during their gatherings. Yet, despite such difficulties, the camaraderie and joyful spirit of their gatherings remained intact. This was especially true during turbulent times like Cyclone Bebe, when the strong community ties and the calming effect of yaqona served as solace in chaos.
Across the years and through various storms—both literal and figurative—ogbuqenokava sessions became a source of unity, transcending ethnic backgrounds and social classes, symbolizing the collective spirit of Fiji. Deoki’s experiences reveal how these bonds have endured even as friends have scattered across the world, with annual reunions now celebrated in different locations—such as the touching gathering in Sydney for Ulysses’ 50th anniversary.
As Deoki reflects on his past from his seventies, he emphasizes the timeless nature of these connections. The memories of laughter, mischief, and music serve as a reminder of the richness found in relationships, which are often established and deepened over a simple bowl of yaqona.
Thus, even as friends age and life circumstances change, the essence of what brings them together—the beautiful, magical mix of friendship and tradition—continues to inspire hope for a united future rooted in shared experiences and cultural heritage. Long may these traditions, and the sense of belonging they foster, thrive in Fiji’s heart.
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