Lavenia Volaukitoga, 62, has honored the memory of her husband every Remembrance Day for the past 30 years, dedicating her time to pay tribute to fallen soldiers, including her late spouse. Her late husband was tragically killed on June 4, 1994, when he was shot down by Hezbollah during peacekeeping duties in Lebanon.
Accompanied by her granddaughter, Ms. Volaukitoga visited the National War Memorial Grounds in Veiuto, Suva, to reflect on the sacrifices made by soldiers. Despite enduring immense pain and struggle, she attributes her strength to her faith in God. “No matter how painful it was, I chose God, and through that, I was composed and had enough courage to take care of our children alone,” she shared.
For ten years, Ms. Volaukitoga raised her five children in Bua without financial support from the Republic of Fiji Military Forces (RFMF). Working as a market vendor was a challenge, yet she persevered. It wasn’t until 2006 that she received a job offer from the RFMF, working as a cleaner at the Queen Elizabeth Barracks office in Suva, a position she held until 2016. Now, she primarily cares for her grandchildren, the oldest of whom is preparing for her first Fiji School Leaving Certificate Examination.
Nineteen-year-old Wakesa Raiwa expressed her emotions during the commemoration, stating, “I may not have seen my grandfather, but I know he was a great man, giving his all to protect my family and our nation.” Wakesa dreams of becoming the President one day, supported wholeheartedly by her grandmother.
Also attending the ceremony was Susana Veretawatini, 59, who travels from Naisomua, Tailevu annually to remember her husband, Corporal Lui Veretawatini, who was killed in Sinai in 2008. She reflected on her memories and the hope she once had for her children to enlist in the RFMF. Despite the challenges she faced, Ms. Veretawatini remains grateful, stating that the hardships have shaped her into a person filled with peace and gratitude.
This annual observance signifies not just loss, but also resilience and hope as families come together to honor their loved ones who served their nation. It serves as a reminder that through remembrance, communities can heal and grow strong together.
In summary, both Lavenia Volaukitoga and Susana Veretawatini exemplify the strength and resilience of families impacted by the sacrifices of their loved ones in the military, highlighting the enduring support of family and faith in overcoming life’s challenges.
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