Lavenia Volaukitoga, 62, has devoted the past 30 years to honoring the memory of her late husband, who was a soldier and lost his life on June 4, 1994, while serving in Lebanon. Every Remembrance Day, she visits the National War Memorial Grounds in Veiuto, Suva, a tradition she continues with her granddaughter by her side.
Her husband was tragically shot down by Hezbollah during his peacekeeping mission, a loss that turned her life upside down. Despite the pain, Volaukitoga described finding strength in her faith. She shared, “No matter how painful it was, I chose God, and through that, I was composed and mastered enough courage to take care of our children alone.”
Raising five children in Bua without financial support from the Republic of Fiji Military Forces (RFMF) was a challenging journey. She worked as a vendor in the market to provide for her family, yet it was often not sufficient. In 2006, her fortunes changed when the RFMF offered her a job as a cleaner at the Queen Elizabeth Barracks, allowing her some financial stability until she retired in 2016 to help care for her grandchildren.
Among them is Wakesa Raiwa, 19, who expressed her pride in her grandfather’s legacy. Although she did not know him personally, she reflected on his sacrifices, stating, “I’m pretty sure I’m not going to follow his footsteps of becoming a soldier, but I dream to become the President one day.” Raiwa feels fortunate to have the support of her family, especially her grandmother.
Another attendee, Susana Veretawatini, 59, shared her own story of loss and remembrance. A widow since her husband, Corporal Lui Veretawatini, was killed in Sinai in 2008, she has attended the memorial every year to cherish their memories. Despite facing challenges in hopes of having her children enlist in the RFMF, Veretawatini noted that the struggles enhanced her appreciation for life, saying that her experiences have brought her peace and gratitude.
These stories showcase the enduring spirit of families impacted by the sacrifices of soldiers, highlighting both their struggles and moments of hope as they honor their loved ones.
This Remembrance Day not only serves as a moment of reflection for families like Volaukitoga’s and Veretawatini’s but also strengthens their resolve to cherish the legacy of their loved ones while looking towards a brighter future for the next generations.
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