Lavenia Volaukitoga, 62, has devoted the last 30 years to honoring the memory of her late husband by attending Remembrance Day services, a tradition she continued with her granddaughter at the National War Memorial Grounds in Suva. Ms. Volaukitoga’s husband lost his life on June 4, 1994, when he was shot down by Hezbollah during peacekeeping efforts in Lebanon.
Reflecting on her heartache, she attributes her strength to God, who helped her navigate the challenges of raising five children as a single mother. For a decade, she struggled as a market vendor in Bua, supporting her family without any compensation from the Republic of Fiji Military Forces (RFMF). This financial strain, she noted, impacted her children’s opportunities for success in life.
In 2006, her situation began to improve when she received an offer from the RFMF to work as a cleaner at the Queen Elizabeth Barracks in Suva, a position she held until 2016. Now, she spends her time caring for her grandchildren, with her eldest granddaughter, Wakesa Raiwa, preparing for her first Fiji School Leaving Certificate examination.
Wakesa expressed pride in her grandfather’s legacy of courage and service, although she aspires to become the President rather than follow his path as a soldier. She feels fortunate to have her grandmother’s unwavering support.
Meanwhile, Susana Veretawatini, 59, attended the ceremony in remembrance of her late husband, Corporal Lui Veretawatini, who was killed in Sinai in 2008. Each year, she makes the journey from Vugalei, Tailevu to honor their shared memories. Despite the hardships following her husband’s death, she remains grateful and finds peace in her life.
These stories of resilience and dedication reflect a profound commitment to honoring fallen soldiers and a hopeful outlook on family and future aspirations. Such events foster community bonds and allow families to come together in remembrance and gratitude, with a shared understanding of sacrifice, love, and hope for a brighter future.
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