Men facing domestic violence, relationship challenges, and other issues that impact their physical and mental well-being are encouraged to seek help from counselors. Mohenesh Singh, a counselor and founder of Healing Hands Foundation Fiji, emphasizes that support is available for men struggling with suicidal thoughts.
“It is crucial for men to break their silence and report to the police if they feel their rights are being violated,” Mr. Singh stated. He encourages men who feel scared, isolated, confused, ashamed, or afraid to reach out to organizations like his for assistance.
Mr. Singh actively promotes awareness among male youth, helping them learn how to address their issues. “Men should discuss their circumstances to avoid dwelling on suicidal thoughts,” he advised. He reports that, on average, five to six men share their problems with him daily in the Northern Division.
His observations reveal that domestic violence, relationship challenges, and financial strains are significant factors leading to male suicides. Additionally, men who abuse alcohol or drugs are at an increased risk of taking their own lives.
He noted that societal attitudes in Fiji often discourage men from disclosing their experiences of abuse. “In Fiji, the pressure to appear as a ‘strong man’ can hinder men from seeking counseling or help,” Mr. Singh explained. “While overcoming these fears is challenging, it is vital to understand that abuse will likely persist until proactive steps are taken.”
According to police reports on national suicide statistics from January to October 2023, men accounted for the majority of suicide and attempted suicide cases, with 90 males compared to 40 females.